Why are people so mean with their answers on parenting?

teen pregnancy and breastfeeding questions...wow, watch out!





drum rollllllllllllllllllllllllllWhy are people so mean with their answers on parenting?
Some people are idiots, and have a sarcastic comment for everything.


Some are just blunt people. They'll tell you what they think and don't care if it offends you.


Some are just easy going and tell you what they think.


The rest are just too nice, and don't want to offend anyone.Why are people so mean with their answers on parenting?
i know right! good lord i hate it when people are d*cks to other people who actually NEED help....
I think people tend to get very, very opionated when it comes to children. I myself have gotten a little nasty at times, I'm afraid. I don't get upset about teen pregnancy or breastfeeding questions...but anything about a child not being put first and treated as the precious angels they are really steams me. And then there are also the parents that think that they way they are raising/raised their children was the only way it should be done so they give their two cents worth.
I don't see with what's wrong @ breast feeding. I do understand that there might be some moral/political dilemma encountered with teen pregnancy but personally, I don't think it's anyone's business to tell off other people.
because people can hide behind a computer
I don't know why some people have problems! if they don't have anything nice to say...then they shouldn't say it at all.
I am rude in 2 situations:





1. If you are on public assistance. I need my whole paycheck for MY pregnancy/child; I am not responsible for your body or your child. If you can't feed 'em, don't breed 'em. Simple as that. If you don't like my criticism, don't have children you cannot afford.





2. When women whine and cry about ';not judging others';, and then go answer a question about abortion in the most nasty, judgmental way possible. Can you say hypocrite?
I know I breastfed all 4 of my kids with no problem but sometimes when I offer advise people give me thumbs down.
Parents ARE mean!! LOL I've noticed that.. so in return I try to be POSITIVE when I answer questions..





I mean ... I've asked my share of questions and when I look back I think ---wow what a dumb question .. LOL


But no question is dumb, except the one that isn't asked.. cause then you continue to mess up!





So please... mommies.. be nice!!


geez!





What's your question hun??


If it's about breasfeeding.. I couldn't help ya!


I tried it and I cried like I never cried before cause my daughter did not want me, love me or need me (at least that's how it felt at the time) and now I realize that she just wanted to eat FAST (like her dad) and a bottle did that for her. lol





I didn't even notice the ';teen-parenting'; part until I read the other replies..


Well do the best you can.. I felt like a teen when I had my daughter and I had her at 23.. I cried as they wheeled me into delivery.. when asked WHY I was crying -I had no contractions yet- I replied ';I'm not ready for any of this, how did this happen...';


Um.. at 23 and married.. I don't know WHY I was asking ';HOW'; LOL





It's the scariest thing at any age!
some people are just bitter inside and cant find anything nice to say..so their inside anger are protrayed out in answers..